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Babies are Conscious
Nisam sigurna gdje otvoriti ovaj topic pa molim moderatore da ga premjeste ako treba.
http://www.eheart.com/cesarean/babies.html
Ovo je link na jako zanimljiv tekst. Dugacak je, ali se isplati procitati. Govori o tome da bebe razvijaju osjetila, sjecanje i socijalno ponasanje puno prije nego sto se dugo vjerovalo (i nazalost jos vjeruje).
Govori o mnogim stvarima koje, vjerujem, majke instinktivno znaju.
Stranica je o ljudima koji su rodjeni carskim rezom i o posljedicama koje to nosi sa sobom. Takodjer jako zanimljivo.
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Moji su oba da rođeni carskim rezom i vjeruj mi , jako dobro zanam za "medicinski nedokazane" posljedice toga. A sad će i treće biti tako rođeno (zbog prevelikog rizika).
A da li negdje piše kako djetetu pomoći prebroditi taj stres od poroda ili kako ublažiti posljedice?
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http://www.eheart.com/cesarean/joanne.html
Ovdje jedna majka vrlo konkretno prica o tome kako je odgajati dijete rodjeno carskim rezom.
"Caesarean babies need to be held close a lot longer than vaginally born babies. I think it is a mistake for anybody to put their baby into day care at 2 months, but it is an even bigger mistake to do it with a cesarean born child, especially non-labor ones. I carried Felice in a snugli pack on my front for 11 months. I didn't know why I was doing it, but I knew that she needed it. It helped both of us. I understood her better because of that and she trusted me more. It is a lot of work for some families to do this but you have to be prepared to hold your cesarean born baby longer than you expect."
Kao sto je rekla NewAge, treba puno ljubavi. Od prve minute. Treba i puno strpljenja i razumijevanja. I naravno potpora drugih ljudi, obitelji.
"It would be nice to have a lamaze type organization for parents of cesarean born kids. Because if we really listen to ourselves we know what to do, but it is so different from what society is telling us now. Independence and getting kids out on their own seems to be the thing that is being taught. Caesarean kids are independent naturally. What they need to learn is how to be close."
"One of the hardest parts is running up against the wall of your own birth learning. In a crisis situation where you are trying to get your point across to your child, there is a sense often of "Dammit why can't you understand what I am telling you?" Then you have to step back and try to put it another way, in her language. That is a conscious decision that is very hard to make."
"It is important to remember that as the parent you are the one who has to communicate in their language. And having to deal with the fact that you don't speak it very fluently is very difficult."
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Eto, meni su pričali da su bebe rođene carskim rezom ustvari "maze" jer "nisu patile"!!!!
Moj mali će već dvije godine, bili smo zajedno do njegovih 1.5 godina i mislim da je to puno značilo za njega - on je mirna beba, maza, veseljak...a meni je nešto govorilo da možemo zahvaliti tome što smo dugo bili zajedno.
Jer, moja prijateljica je morala početi raditi nakon 3 mjeseca i beba joj je bila malo nervozna, pomalo agresivnog ponašanja... (a rođena vaginalno)
Mislim, najvažnija je ljubav, ljubav... i mamina blizina.
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