Evo, u posljednje vrijeme sam čitala više o time-in metodi, koja mi se čini najprihvatljivijom do sad.

Evo ukratko o razlici izmeđju time-in i time-out:

The popular "time-out" behavior management technique is less harsh than traditional forms of discipline, but it's still a punishment -- like a mini jail sentence. Time-outs usually include a shame component as well (e.g., the "Naughty Chair").

An alternative to time-outs is what you might call a "time-in." The purpose of a time-in is not to punish but to help the child get centered and enhance the parent-child connection:

* Rather than being *forced* to go to a
time-out place, the child is *invited* to
join the parent for a time-in (although
"protective use of force" may sometimes
be required).

* The parent and child go to a quiet,
comfortable place and stay there *together*.

* The parent uses the time-in to get centered
and create a feeling of unconditional
Presence and Connection, which has a
calming, healing effect on the child.

Uglavnom, mene zanima koje metode i same koristite, i ako ste probale obadvije metode, koja vam se činila boljom?

Da li je stvarno time-in metoda (razgovor, ali ne i kazna?) učinkovitija od time-out metode.. (ostavite dijete da sjedi u tišini otprilike jednu minutu za svaku godinu starosti) ? :?