Vedrane, s obzirom da je bas jucer otvorena tema sa dijelom interviewa jedne zene koja je dojila djecu do 7-8 godine (za nasu kulturu uistinu sokantno) samo cu kopirati ovdje dio njenih odgovora jer ona to bas dobro objasnjava.

o granici:
Firstly, let's get rid of the term extended breastfeeding, for it suggests that we are doing something beyond a normal or natural timescale. The appropriate words for describing a situation where a child is allowed to self-wean is called full term breastfeeding. This is regardless of whether a child weans at 2 years of age or later. From my perspective, the age is irrelevant. What is important is that the child is welcomed to the breast and that the relationship is mutually enjoyable for mother and child. Not all children would breastfeed beyond five or six years of age if allowed to self wean.
o muzevima:
[quote]In the past few weeks I've been asked many questions that people clearly want to know. I'll do my best to answer some of them here.

No, my sex life has not suffered because of breastfeeding. Nor has it for my husband. Many people suggest that it is difficult for men to be at the back of the queue when kids come along, and goodness me, how did my poor husband cope with not being first in line? Well, I am blessed with an emotionally and mentally mature husband. He has never felt jealous or needy. He knows I love and adore him. That doesn't change because I'm breastfeeding the two children who were created from our love! It is hardly beneficial to parenting if the partner is acting like a needy child.[quote]

o grudnjaku i (pretpostavljam) obliku:
I've been asked over and over if I'm concerned about my breasts changing shape because of breastfeeding. Breastfeeding does not change the change of your breasts, PREGNANCY does! And how could a mother not value her breasts, regardless of their shape, when she has fully nourished her children through them? So what if they aren't a certain size or a certain shape? My kids and husband love them the way they are. Why should I care what the average man on the street thinks of them? I don't!!
Ona jos pise o tome kako se dijete ne moze prisiliti na dojenje (a to vrlo dobro zna svatko tko pozna mehanizam dojenja). Tako da to moze biti odgovor na onaj dio "kako to utjece na psihu djeteta".

Ono pitanje o tome kako se osjecaju zene koje nisu dojile je po meni izlisno. Do bi otprilike bilo kao da ja ne dajem svojoj djeci gluten da se majki djece koja imaju celijakiju ne osjecaju lose. A Anchi ti je to bas lijepo odgovorila.