A ovo sto pises da zelis djecu postedjeti boli... Pa zasto? Trudove prodises, izmedju se smijes s djecom, pa sto je lose u tome da nauce da je i bol dio zivota. I da bol cak moze biti i slatka
Potpisujem.
Ja baš mislim da je dobro pripremiti i uključiti stariju djecu (koliko god je to moguće obzirom na njihovu dob i naše uvjete rađanja) i u trudnoću i u porod njihove sestrice ili brata.
Zašto bi im to skrivala? Ako im lijepo na vrijeme sve objasniš kako će ići, oni će to sigurno lijepo razumjeti, ne treba ih podcjenjivati .
Pogledaj ovaj link, tu su neka iskustva...
http://www.gentlebirth.org/Midwife/swSiblings.html
http://www.compleatmother.com/homebirth/hb_siblings.htm

A ovdje nešto o induciranju poroda:
http://www.mothering.com/articles/pr.../ecstatic.html
Synthetic oxytocin administered in labor does not act like the body's own oxytocin. First, Syntocinon-induced contractions are different from natural contractions, and these differences can cause reduced blood flow to the baby. For example, waves can occur almost on top of each other when too high a dose of synthetic oxytocin is given, and it also causes the resting tone of the uterus to increase.33

Second, oxytocin, synthetic or not, cannot cross from the body to the brain through the blood-brain barrier. This means that Syntocinon, introduced into the body by injection or drip, does not act as the hormone of love. However, it does provide the hormonal system with negative feedback--that is, oxytocin receptors in the laboring woman's body detect high levels of oxytocin and signal the brain to reduce production. We know that women with Syntocinon infusions are at higher risk of bleeding after the birth, because their own oxytocin production has been shut down. But we do not know the psychological effects of giving birth without the peak levels of oxytocin that nature prescribes for all mammalian species.

As for the baby, "Many experts believe that through participating in this initiation of his own birth, the fetus may be training himself to secrete his own love hormone."34 Michel Odent speaks passionately about our society's deficits in our capacity to love self and others, and he traces these problems back to the time around birth, particularly to interference with the oxytocin system.
http://www.birthworks.org/bwodent.html
Psychiatrists from Kumamoto (Japan) studied autistic children according to their place of birth. At one hospital studied, the routine is to induce labor a week before the expected date of delivery (oxytocin and prostaglandins) and to use a mixture of diazepam, methoxyflurane, pethidine, ketamine, and nitrous oxide if necessary. Children born in that hospital were at high risk of becoming autistic.